So I had lunch with A-girl today. We went to a general restaurant and had a nice lunch. We ate, talked, laughed... it was nice. I couldn't do it, though. I couldn't have "the talk". I was cut off at the knees last night when I mentioned having lunch with A-girl to G-lady (another woman in the office where I work).
So G-lady tells me "A-girl is so in love with another guy she's talking about moving to where he is". I smile, nod, and tell her 'okay' just to pacify her. When it came right down to it, I couldn't broach the subject with A-girl over lunch. I didn't want to make a ham-handed effort to bring up the discussion so I just let it go. I tried not to think about it as I was eating because it would, most likely, make me very nervous around her. I didn't want that. Instead, it was very comfortable.
I'm still waiting on the backlash from G-lady.
So G-lady tells me "A-girl is so in love with another guy she's talking about moving to where he is". I smile, nod, and tell her 'okay' just to pacify her. When it came right down to it, I couldn't broach the subject with A-girl over lunch. I didn't want to make a ham-handed effort to bring up the discussion so I just let it go. I tried not to think about it as I was eating because it would, most likely, make me very nervous around her. I didn't want that. Instead, it was very comfortable.
I'm still waiting on the backlash from G-lady.